Fate

was watching some silly programme. the female and male leads were at the same place but they missed seeing each other because one came a few minutes too early and the other a few minutes too late. Or wat abt those classic scenes where the guy walks into one elevator and at the exact same moment, the girl walks out of the other elevator.

That got me thinking. Although you guys are so close to bumping into each other, you two still don't because of those few minutes. Does that mean you don't have fate at all? or does it mean that you don't have enough fate? Or is it fate's way of laughing at you?

Even if you bump into the other person, thats just one person out of the dozens of people you bump into. Is that considered enough fate??? Enough fate in the sense that you guys are meant to be with each other. No wat. Cause you are going to have see each other more than once in order to create a future.

So, in the end, does fate even play a part? Can we create fate? or are we supposed to seize the opportunity to continue the fate when it presents itself.

In true form, I relate his back to mj. You can get one fa cai, den u throw it away thinking that you are unlikely to get another fa cai. But fate makes fun of you and u draw another fa cai. Do you still keep it in hope that u can get 2 more fa cais?

So so many decisions are made on incomplete information. So we blindly make decisions and take the leap of faith. And when we leap, we hope that fate is not out to make a fool out of us.

dumb post. i should be thinking of ICF